Monday, May 6, 2013

Yes, we have no bananas- but we DO have everything else.

I have gotten a lot of questions about my shopping/prepping/freezing habits for meals. I wanted to take a minute to explain briefly how meal prep goes down in my household (on a good week). When I tell people how I do things, a lot of them comment that cooking and shopping and prepping this way costs too much time, and money. Hopefully this blog will clear up some of the questions. This type of blog is all over the internet but here it is from my perspective.

I do the bulk of my shopping- every two weeks. This of course does not include the stops that Martin and/or I might make to pick up something we've forgotten, or wine or beer runs, or the occasional week when my kids crank through two gallons of milk, or gobble up my produce in two seconds flat.

Prepping this way is so healthy, because fresh, clean fruits and vegetables are ready to go at a moments notice, and can be easily added to a dish, served in a lunch box, or as a snack that my kids can help themselves too. Plus, we tend to actually run out of produce on the weeks when I take time to prep it. This is great and the argument I would make to those worried about costs. How much money are you wasting on produce you buy and never use? These particular weeks, I spent $225 on two and half weeks of food, and that included chicken, beef, produce, dairy (I do my dairy runs at Costco- milk, block cheese, organic free range eggs, feta cheese and sour cream as well as bread- this stuff usually stretches more than 2 weeks with the exception of the milk and eggs); plus whatever household toiletry needs we had. For those that don't know- we have a family of four that includes two growing boys at nearly 7 and 11. The way I figure it- that breaks down to feeding my family at $5.35 per meal- even less if you include snacks; and most of the meals double for another use, and again that included ALL of our groceries and toiletries. I say, not bad at all.

The first thing I did wash rinse my berries, and grapes and soak them in a vinegar solution of 1 part vinegar to 3 parts water.


According to pinterest, this helps remove some of the insecticides- if you can't buy organic; and also prevents berries and fruits from molding. I must say this was the first time I had tried the vinegar idea. I will say that I was VERY impressed. You cannot taste the vinegar on the fruits at all (I did re-rinse mine after) and while the strawberries and blueberries were all gone well before two weeks were up, the grapes lasted a solid 2-1/2 weeks. So I give this a thumbs up. The strawberries I did not prep this way last week ended up costing me 1 and half containers of berries within 3 days. I'm not kidding. It nearly made me weep to compost them. So, worth doing the rinsing in vinegar.

For containers, any storage container will do, but I used my handy dandy fridge smart containers I have from my 2 minute-early-married-days stint as a Tupperware lady. I have to say, between these and the Modular Mates- money well spent 13-1/2 years ago. If you want some, go to the Tupperware website. Sadly, I don't know a rep currently (chime in, if you're one). Sorry, I got on a tangent. Anyway, any storage container will do, really- you'll see I used several. However, I do recommend putting a paper towel in the bottom of any container- it absorbs the excess water. Last week, when we did the Waste portion of Seven, I banned paper towels and all paper products for a week, and hence the 1-1/2 containers of wasted strawberries. One of them I did wash, but it still molded without my Viva paper towel. :( The berries and grapes will obviously end up in our tummies by way of adding to cereal, oatmeal, lunch boxes, snack cups, and vanilla greek yogurt with granola. YUM.

Next up, kale.
I decided what was good for the berries is probably good for the kale, and I washed that and soaked it in vinegar too. I should mention- kale is a tough little cookie to clean. Even soaking (yucky water afterwards) did not remove all the grit and stuff in the leaves- so this took the longest time to clean. When it was clean, I removed the tough stems, tore it into bite sized pieces and stuck it all in a gallons sized ziplock with a paper towel.



It lasted well over 2 weeks, although occasionally I did have to pull a yellowed piece or two. I used up the kale by adding it to my juicing in the mornings, and at the very end, we gobbled it up by way of kale chips. My kids seriously love them and get mad if I eat too many. That recipe is in my cookbook, "The Care Giver's Cookbook", which you can find the link here.

Another staple I keep in our house is red and green peppers and onions. So next up, I washed the peppers (in vinegar solution), and rinsed the green onions. I diced a whole onion, as well as about 1/2 of the red and green pepper. I reserved some onion in a container by itself (to be used for hot dogs or taco toppings) and also mixed a little with the diced red and green onion in a separate container (this will be added as desired to omelets, taco meat, spaghetti sauce- where ever I think it fits- it's a great ground meat stretcher- so I can use 1/2 pound instead of a full when I also add grated carrots). I also reserved 2 chopped green onions and 1/4 diced red pepper for Cowboy Caviar I made at the end.


I washed and chopped cauliflower and stored it in a ziplock bag. Later that week, I mixed it with carrots and potatoes and roasted it- an easy side dish and 1/2 for us, 1/2 for a friend who needed a meal. I washed and chopped 1 bunch of celery- 3/4 of it into celery sticks for lunch boxes and juicing, and the rest diced- to add to dishes.



Carrots- I do a little differently because there's so many uses for them. I wash a whole bag- I think this was a 1 pound bag. After cutting ends and peeling, I cut the slimmer ones into carrot sticks for lunchboxes and juicing, and then I cut about 4-5 into bigger chunks because I was planning a stew that week. I also grate (I miss my food processor which is broken) probably 5-6 carrots. I use the grated carrots in taco meat, spaghetti sauce (again, ground meat stretcher) and salads.


Also, I cut up in cubes- one whole pineapple, and one cantaloupe. My fridge was one happy fridge. And not one single stitch of this produce was thrown away.


This same day, I made home-made ranch dressing for the kids to eat with their carrot and celery sticks, and a batch of Cowboy Caviar for snacking and lunch box.


So, now, you're probably thinking, "Oh my Lord, she was in the kitchen ALL DAY!". No. It was less than 2 hours- I think about an hour and a half- give or take. So one day- less than 2 hours, and my family had fresh produce at their finger tips for 2 weeks. Here's my receipt which includes the produce I just mentioned, plus some meats and other items and I think pears and apples. I have not pictured my Costco and Target receipts. You'll just have to trust me there.



Do you have time saver tips for healthy eating? What are they?





Saturday, May 4, 2013

The Greatest Generation of Care Givers

There is a whole generation of men out there who are now faced with the insurmountable task of being a care giver to their wives. For whatever reason- surgery, stroke, cancer- they now find themselves in a role that they haven't even seen their wives in for 30-50 years or more- the role of Care Giver. Many of them have no idea how to begin, and have a lack of local help. They struggle with the day to day of just getting themselves and their wives through bathing, feeding, toilet, and cleaning the house. In addition, they are now faced with the pressure of putting meals on the table- healthy ones to boot- many are on special diets; not too mention the fact that they have been raised to not ask for help (or don't know how).

Rather than watching our loved ones serve and consume sodium packed frozen dinners while we're not there to help, I propose we give them tools to prepare meals that are fast, easy and with few ingredients. I also propose we give them tools to ask for help.

I have created my first ever Care Giver's Cookbook. It includes shopping lists, recipes, and even a HELPER list to put on the fridge. They don't have to ask for help- they can just point helpers to the fridge!



This cookbook doesn't just work for Care Givers, I've actually used several of the recipes in our own family's meal rotation. Every busy person deserves a healthy, easy meal. I would like to point out that not all of the recipes are my original works. I have compiled some from Allrecipes.com (you can search by dietary needs), Pinterest, and my handy-dandy Better Homes and Gardens cookbook circa 2000.

So pop over and visit my first ever cookbook. Click here to read my new mini-cookbook! I'm already rolling around ideas in my head for weeks 2-4!

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Affirmation Junkie

I'm still here. And, well, bottom line is that after media fast- I just didn't feel like I needed to rush over here and put things down into the blogosphere. Not all of it was pretty, and I didn't really want judgement seeping through my computer screen to suck me down a vortex of guilt and shame. Not that ya'll would ever do that.

The week of the media fast left me irritable, angry, upset and lonely. I should mention that during this week- the Boston Bombing happened on Monday, followed by the West, TX explosions on Wednesday (Only 1-1/2 hrs away), and the massive manhunts for the bombing suspects. I was inundated by bad news on tv and internet- which was all I had; and craved some happy kittens and baby faces from Facebook. There's only so many times you can check the weather ya'll- even when you're a weather nerd like me. By Saturday, I was just about to melt down and had Martin trolling Facebook for me and feeding me snippets of information. This showed me a lot about myself- who am I following for entertainment and gossipy purposes, whose lives and families I legitimately follow, and who could I maybe unsubscribe from because their threads are giant pinterest boards. I know that's not all nice, but it's true.

By Saturday afternoon, I was ready to quit the fast. That evening was our annual neighborhood mashed potato fight, and the following day (Sunday) was BOTH of my kids baptisms. At the thought of not being able to post pictures and cute jokes, trash talk (to my mashed potato neighbors, not the baptism stuff), and pondering inspirational thoughts- I became angrier and even resentful. It didn't seem right to not share this with my family and friends. I was sharing GroupMe texts with the Bible Study girls and they were all, "You can do it!", "Hang in there!", "Savor the joy...", blah, blah, blah. No offense girls. But I was upset and resentful and that just got on my nerves like a drug addict fighting an intervention. At one point Saturday afternoon, I asked Martin- "At what point is a fast not healthy!?!?! I'm not learning anything spiritually. I've got NOTHING!" He didn't have an answer. But the Bible Study girls words haunted me like a bad rash, and I held on. (I'm thankful now).

Five days in- the break through came to me on Sunday morning during service. Jim said (I think it was Jim?) "If you're looking toward a wide audience for affirmation then you're not looking to God. And that's a sin." (Or, something very close to that, but that was the general idea). Oh. The sermon was not even about Facebook, it was about love. But that little tidbit was there just for me. I realized that I look to Facebook, pinterest, blog, etc- for affirmation. "Oh, you're so funny, oh your kids are so cute (insert kind, funny, sweet, huggable), what a cute family!, oh how pretty you look in that dress". This is an easy hole to get sucked into for me, because hubs is gone a lot. And I get lonely. I literally have days where I'm clicking refresh to "hear" another adult (besides the Target cashier) say something. Even better if it's to me. And it's nice.

I powered through, and did not break the fast. not once. Even when I got the message from FB that I had all those notifications waiting on me.


On Tuesday when we went back to Bible Study and reviewed/discussed our week, I threw up on the table (verbally,not literally)- just because I wanted to hear what they had to say about it. I posed the same question to them that I had to Martin- at what point is a fast not healthy? One friend replied, "when I did the media fast... I knew that when I wasn't yet learning or growing through the thing- I needed to go longer because I wasn't ready to learn or grow yet." Oh, again. And I thought my bad attitude would get me off the hook.

So, Facebook and Pinterest are still not on my phone- just on the ipad. Those 21 notifications? 17 of them were invitations to play Candy Crush, Slyngo, Jyngo, Jango, Fashionista, and Star Wars Angry Birds; I don't even know if I got all those game names right- but I'm not a gamer on Facebook or ipad, and I learned really quick how to unsubscribe from those requests. I also find Facebook way less interesting (almost annoying), and find myself posting less. Usually when I do post- it's pictures, so I do have instagram. During this journey with Seven, I made a new friend at the church, and she pointed out that Facebook can be a good thing- when used the right way. So I've been trying to find ways to use it for good- for example swapping/sharing stuff instead of buying new stuff, encouraging friends with a verse or prayer or encouragement I know they might need to face a certain situation, reading inspirational blogs I've seen on Facebook. So, it's not all bad. But it can also be used the wrong way.

How are you using social media for good? I'd love to hear your ideas!